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4 years ago today, Sunday 22nd of April 2018, my life’s dream was shattered. My wife at the time came outside while I was working in the yard and she said to me “I can’t live like this.” She was in tears and pretty soon afterwards, so was I. We had a talk and whilstContinue reading “If You Know What Is Good For You…”

In today’s modern society, value is placed on many different things and sadly it is most commonly the materialistic things that spring to mind when we think of value. Not all that long ago, kicking a crushed can around in the street with your mates gave untold hours of joy and guess what – itContinue reading “What is worth?”

As the saying goes, you never know what you had until it’s gone. I’ve just returned from dropping my 2 teens and their mother at the airport for a trip to Hawaii. They will be away for 12 days. Whilst I do not envisage them never returning, it is still nonetheless extremely difficult emotionally toContinue reading “Love My Life”

Hardships are an inevitability for us humans. We are an eclectic mix of nationalities, personalities and characters. We’ve all had different influences growing up, even though your next door neighbour’s kid is from the same class as your kid and you’ve known them all their lives. Given the diverse nature of our humanity, the hardshipsContinue reading “Make a life you love”

There are many ways of saying that fate has brought to you a specific place at a specific time, as the title of this episode suggests. It has been a little while since I last wrote but in that intervening time I have made a few changes – and brought onto myself a few stressesContinue reading “Swings, roundabouts and life’s puzzle”

I bet that title caught you out! This is an expression that I use whenever I have had to deal with unpleasant situations such as when I see my ex wife when I’m dropping off or picking up my kids. It also applies to being directed to doing something at work that you are diametricallyContinue reading “Turd sandwiches”

I recently read a great autobiography titled “The Happiest Man On Earth” and it was written by an amazing man by the name of Eddie Jaku. Eddie was born in Germany and loved his country. Eddie is also Jewish. He survived the Holocaust in WW2 when many of his friends, family and others did not.Continue reading “Happiest Man In The World”

Firstly, Happy New Year to everyone. We have just left another difficult year behind us. No matter where you are in the world, life was challenging at best in 2021, as it was the year before and I know we will all be stronger for the experience. Battling with restrictions over the COVID pandemic helpsContinue reading “Feel it, face it and free yourself”

Life throws many challenges at us and our physical and mental well being is constantly tested. One day we feel fantastic, even bulletproof. Then all of a sudden we come crashing down and all seems too much and that we can never catch a break. The happy times and moments of good fortune bring euphoria,Continue reading “Swings and roundabouts”

Self doubt. Heightened self criticism. Unrealistic self expecations. Lack of confidence. Worrying about what others think of us. Trying to please everyone else. Are these weaknesses? Perhaps. Are they more like personality traits and characteristics of our being? I’d say so. Whether they be weaknesses (usually of the mind) or perceived deficiencies in our personalContinue reading “Is your biggest weakness your strong suit?”